Because Its Needed

• My Jack'd profile states that I'm full of shit.  What I mean by that is that I have been dating in this community for about fifteen years or so. I've been around the block more or less so I know how to play this "game".  I have a good enough discernment to know how something will end up. I know what to say to affect the possible outcomes. I also know what not to say to affect those outcomes.  So I say I'm full of shit because 'I'm familiar with the strategy of things and I sometimes use that to my advantage. Now, don't get me wrong, everything doesn't always happen in such ways,there's always an exception. However, that's my explanation for being " full of shit" In my own words.
• I love this photo. The colors.
• I'm really wondering if the first person I "dated" set me up for the rest of my fool of the crazy dating life I'ved had. I've told you about him before. I was sixteen...he was 22...he had a boyfriend...blah blah hair toss. Yeah that...
• Do you have a name for your ding a ling? Is that only a straight guy thing? What is the name?
• If we can't evolve passed " Are you a top or a bottom?" Then how do you expect... Nevermind.
• I bought a new sex toy. I dunno if I like it yet.
• I watched an old episode of Iyanla: Fix My Life the other day. The one with The Six Brown Chicks or whatever. That was amazing!! Can she do that for the community? Like all of us gather in the Superdome and she just heal? I've said this before but I'm serious.
• Oh you don't think you need healing? Chile...

• I also watched on Super Soul Sunday , Oprah's conversation with Nate Berkus. One segment he mentioned how when you're a kid that knows they are gay, you develop a skill set that makes you dishonest. I'd never thought about things this way, but how accurate.  To be a child that knows they're gay, in his era and in mine meant to lie about yourself all the time. I can remember going to school and slouching in my chair so as to look like the other boys which is a physical lie as I had great posture. That is very tiny example of a broader aspect of what he's saying but I think you get it. Perhaps what we call DL men and their expansive deception is what happens as the dishonesty grows.
• Maybe this is why once "we" come out, we well alot of us are just completely honest ALL THE TIME. Sometimes brutally. However, there's something different going on with this new generation of "us". Or I've just become old. I digress...
• Ask me a question. I'll be honest. HERE
• Did yall see Chris Brown at The Grammys? I love him. I don't care I don't care I don't care...
• I did THIS. I sincerely appreciate the opportunity.  
• Speaking of, I'm soon about to be in the process ( maybe) of expanding this [ blog ] into a website that will include other sections of my interests and creative passions. I must first figure out how I'd like to do this.
• Becareful what you pray for or be ready to receive when HE gives you exactly what you've been asking for.
• I think we have an automatic reaction of running from our passions and desires when we don't or can't see how they will be fruitful for us.
• I was in the bookstore last week in the children's section and I became overcome with the feeling that I can not wait to be a father.  I think I'd be a great father. Not now, lol. but once I get my life together.
• Nothing annoys me more than people that can't get the joke. Especially if I feel like  I am very clear in my wit and humor. If your personality has not evolved enough to accept, receive and exchange wit, then you need to find a clue. And a seat.
• Some people are so smart they're stupid.